I LOVE YOU


How many times have you said that? Once,Twice or never!?

 Drifting away to a world with nobody, just you and your beloved. Reaching out for his arms, touching his face, feeling it and loving it.  His smile, his voice that makes you tremble and above all the way he looks at you with that sparkling shine which makes you blush. Oh my love!! Just like the prince in dreams . 

And when you thought your love was growing so true, and one day it turns out to be blue. You immediately point your finger to the one and blames, “It’s you who have started this, YOU!!! YOU!!!

How many of you have ended up with numerous relationships for wrong reasons and finally into break ups? This deeply rooted fear of being you and lack of understanding has led you to end up things easily. How many of you have changed just for the one?


Loving yourself is itself a life-long romance.Have you ever given a thought of dating yourself? How many times have you relied on external sources for love and friendship? Or is it really the zone of Friends with benefits since that’s all anyone is anymore. 😛

Well, how many of you begin your day saying, Oh Fuck!!! There is a pimple in my face, my hair is tooOO messy, why are my boobs too small, why is my ass bulging, don’t you think one of my eyebrows shorter than other one, do you think I have some deformity in the way I walk, why is it I can’t reduce my weight, why on holy earth I even there?… Have you any time stopped complaining and analyzed yourself. Have you touched your eyes, lips and knew the way it’s shaped and wondered How God could make the most beautiful things. You are blessed with two hands, two legs with an awesome figure be it or not, aren’t you alive at this moment. How many people are dying in this very millisecond? If they were given second chances, do you think they would realize their mistakes? Thank God for the beautiful things that you are blessed with and for a moment, think of others who expired. When all you could do is Just Make a difference! 🙂

We spend so much time waiting to be loved, searching for that special one. Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. Feeling lonesome and getting irritated for no specific reason. Believe me that’s not the way how life works. At the end of day, all you get is frustration!!! Well this would sound crazy, standing in front of the mirror, say, I love you 🙂 Repeat It until you get the firm belief within that you are something lovable then the ones around you. Self respect is the virtue I’m asking for. Everyone has heard that you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. But nobody realises or gives it a thought! You have to love yourself for that, figure out who you are and then appreciate the way you are. If you don’t love or like somebody, you can walk away but what if you don’t love yourself, you can’t escape yourself, can you? This way love yourself, hold onto your passion, nuture your dreams and build up self-confidence. 🙂

A countless times you would have seen I love ME messages; it’s always thrown into trash just because you don’t give it a damn. The older you are; this damn thing surprisingly becomes accurate. 🙂

We have to admit our good and bad, our loss and triumphs. We are not perfect neither you nor me. All that we could do accept our mistakes, believe in YOU!!! There is no tomorrow until you learn your mistakes and change.Everybody has a past, which was yesterday; today you have become someone better than yesterday. Stop criticizing yourself! Everything happens for a reason. When something is taken, something is given better.

You might be crying for all those wonderful memories that someone gifted you with lots of love and happiness. If you could celebrate your past with no regrets, everything that happened to you in the past made you the person of today. All you need to embrace the very thought, without it you won’t be a better person. Now, Sing that song bit LOUDER “What doesn’t kill you makes you strongerrrr”!!!! You are destined to do something in this world like everyone.

Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor each morning the devil says, “Oh, shit, she’s up! With sheer confidence say it I’m awesome!!!! Splash Cold water onto your face, this is just the beginning my love. That doesn’t mean you have to splash water always in order to begin a new start. :p

Everybody does mistakes. Mistakes are the part of being human. Appreciate your mistake for what they are if they could be learnt through the hard way. Learn them and move the hell on!! Transform your mindset into future prospect. Live in the moment, to accept what is and the best way to truly love you. If you focus on the past or present, you do not love yourself. Love yourself by being in present.  Dive into your passion. Believe that you can achieve in no matter how hard it is. Talk to yourself. Speak up positively. Be truthful to yourself. Don’t suppress your emotions. Keep your worries far apart. Don’t allow others to dominate you. Decide for yourself. Embrace your future! 🙂 Sing Praises, Listen to your own ideas and build up a creative mind!!! Stop worrying what others think of you. The world is not ‘the end’. Move on. It’s all that simple, give it a tryyyyyyyyy. 🙂

“There is more in us than we known. If we can be made to see it, perhaps for the rest of our lives we will be unable to settle for less – says Kurt Hahn”

Lack of self love is the root cause of many conditions like eating disorders, obesity, stress and even systemic diseases. So take good care of your body. Eat and sleep well.

It’s not as easy as I simply say it through words; it definitely needs your time, patience and hard work.

It’s the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept who you are just to see you smile and love you no matter what. All you have to do is love others, share whatever you can, help others, live life to the fullest and make this world a better place to live in!

“Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line.”

Keep smiling!! 🙂 🙂 It makes people wonder what you’re up to 🙂 🙂 🙂 (((my secret sssshhhhhhhushhh!!!!))) 😀

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