IMPERFECTIONS


To the crazy people I cherish in heart and believe they are my happy batteries. This is for you. I know I’m not alone in the darkest journey of my life because I know you would be there always to lighten it up! No matter wherever you all are, I still need you, love you and miss you a lot. Cheers Pearl, Diana, Reena, Akshatha to the utmost fun and rolling times we had shared, cared and fought! Hope it remains even after… (The fighting one) 😉

This is the very perfection of a man, to find out his own imperfections. Saint Augustine 536737_495762950493841_746182164_n

Just as the five fingers in hand we are different yet united in a single piece strong and waving in cheerfulness. Even if you close the fingers, it multiplies the strength as completeness!

Many People are introduced to us. There are thousands you can be friends with but only a friend who can relate to each other and when you can be there for each other in good times and in the bad, when you can have many things in common, share each other’s feelings, confide into each other. It the best type of friendships to have.

Have been away from home for so long, we met so many people from different backgrounds, caste, cultures and beliefs. Having studied in different environment we all got along, adjusted and cherished each moment until we ended up in last years of college. The essence of friendship lies in true dynamic nature to adapt to different situations and create bonds with diverse ideas and characters.

We all struggle through hardships to tackle the growing period and tough nature of adamant teenager to a grown up adult while he nurtures his childhood through bunch of friends. It is always we need a compassionate heart, listening ear and a shoulder to lean. You know how it is when you miss the pieces in a puzzle and nothing fits in. That is where friends engage to fill the missing pieces in life.

“Nobody’s perfect. We’re all just one step up from the beasts and one step down from the angels.” ― Jeannette WallsHalf Broke Horses

Since we all are from different places and castes, SO WHAT! These may have shaped our lives till yesterday but why don’t we take a U TURN? Changing our lives to someone better? We may not have similar inhibitions that don’t get along. Instead of being judgmental and acting superiority, why don’t we just wipe off the negatives and bring happiness. By then, we nurture being positive and gain closure to friends forever. Isn’t changing and learning to accustom to new relationships, the true spirit of friendship.

Not every glitter is gold and not every gold glittering! There are people whose edges are rough and blunt or a demon dancing inside, however I believe the human can do wonders by being determinant to polish the roughness and bring out the sparkle that all would love.

1069795_10201883880803078_51613502_nLooking around seeing all my imperfections that makes me, ME! I’m glad cause all I need is to be myself and fit in the comfort zone of all these wonderful people I met in life. We should perceive what matters most to us that even include our choice of friends.

Yet in this virtual world when our conscience says we aren’t alone even when we may be alone in room but have thousands of friends in Facebook and Twitter. Is that Friendship we all blurting out? The truth is aren’t we all the same, never spending time for another, not caring to know what matters in life? It’s presence of friends that add memories craving forever. Their happiness is the biggest blessings we love to see. No these aren’t just words. You should feel them to know the true crux of friendship. Your friends will influence and possibly determine the direction and quality of your life. It’s your move. Embrace your imperfections!

In this context, imperfections are the “friends” that are different but all have single element that links each other. I’m embracing my imperfections cause they love me  the way I am and changed my darker side to a brighter one. Happy me and Happy you! 

I miss you all. Come fast guys 🙂 🙂

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4 thoughts on “IMPERFECTIONS

  1. A nice look at friendship and related issues. I think friendship doesn’t really matter after a certain age. What matters is what you are, nothing more. Friends may come and go and what you are lives on, well, almost forever.

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