“We possess such immense resources of power that pessimism is a laughable absurdity” – Colin Wilson
Reinvent Yourself
“Just be yourself” is the worst lie that you could have come up with your entire childhood. As a child, we never knew what is being yourself meant anyways, the advice was free to take. All our lives we came across many “yous,” and we made new ones all the time. If you’re the problem, you’re the solution too. You will know what needs to be done. It’s never a mystery – you will figure it out. All that is needed is to keep you engaged and busy in doing the necessity. Do it slowly, do it badly, do it anyway you wanted, but do it.
“Then you will find favor and high regard in the sight of God and man. Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.…” – Proverbs 3:5
“Lean not on your understanding” -This above biblical verse simplify when we trust the almighty completely, we shouldn’t rely our own understanding or figure out things by ourselves, but trust in his doings. When we try to figure out us, we tend to have lots of ‘whys’ in our mind – Just wait for the moment. There is always a better opportunity awaiting, or the life we need. Work for it. And you will gradually have a life of goodness.
You are Not Everyone’s cup of Tea
Remember. No one is going to love you the way you imagine or be pleased with you in everything you do. There are few who love you fiercely and just want to see you happy. Your folks, one or two friends who like the way you are, genuinely wishing you the best in all your endeavours. Be for them. Support them. They are your people. Don’t waste your time for those who never spare time to know or be there for you. Don’t waste time convincing them to be your friend, or to walk your path. It just going to be a heavy toll on your emotional well-being. You are not everyone’s cup of tea and neither do they… Seek people who desires to be with you, values you and appreciate the gifts in you.
You are not your Past
If you reminisce through your difficulties in life, you are just bring the ill- circumstances now and hence forth. Let it all go. Do it for you. We are all borne in some or other way in a dysfunctional family, grown through misfortunes and disappointments of past. Let go of all the grudges and failures, if not you are bringing more harm to your mind. Restart your life with new resolutions. Not a fancy list to read but to really work for it! “Whether you think you can or think you can’t, either way you are right” – You can achieve anything, any inspiration, any dream, any solutions just if you put your mind into it. You are a genius beyond description, begin your day, YOU CAN!
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You are right. The one who can cure us or who can solve our problems is no one other than us.
We do not have to rely on others, but just need to see in ourselves.
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Exactly, and that being said. Start with discipline. Sticking to the to-dos or striving for some thing productive. I am working on it so sharing it to you. *Discipline*
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Such an inspirational post… I loved every line of this post… And especially the quote that one day it just clicks is just superb!!
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Thank You Ira ! 😀 I was just checking my spam folder that’s why I got your comment now. Apologies.
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If there’s pain, we need to know that the cure is within.
Nice points, Jensy. I agree with you!
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Thanks Anita sis. ❤
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What a wonderful perspective. Ultimately it’s about getting all the answers from within.
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Yes, thank you for reading.
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